Good morning all. It’s a foggy day here in NYC and I’m excited to be sitting at my desk, drinking a big mug of coffee and dishing. Lots to talk about today – but we’ll start with an awesome video that Adam posted on his blog the other day.
Great right?
I do several of these things on a regular basis…
- drink coffee
- make lists
- sing in the shower
- get lots of rest
- write down ideas
- listen to new music
- be open
- Get away from the computer
- Collaborate
- Allow yourself to make mistakes
- Break the rules
- Stop trying to be someone else’s perfect
- Clean your workspace
- Finish something!!
A good list of goals to focus on this summer!
- Regaining focus
- Envisioning success
- Committing to follow through
- Asking effectively for what we want
- Redefining how we spend our time
- Transforming our inner critic
When I read it the first time I had an “AHAH!!” moment. Other people make this work – amazing people… like Benjamin Franklin! Here is an excerpt from the book that I enjoyed:
Just for fun, let’s imagine that Ben [Franklin] is alive today. How might his friends and family react to his revolving-door approach to careers? Having played his key role in the drafting of the Declaration of Independence, they might expect him to head for a tenured position at the Kennedy School of Government at Harvard. But what about his strange fascination with kite and key experiments? Fine, his wife might say. Why don’t you go to MIT and pursue a nice stable career in science? But no, it turns out that Ben also wants to go abroad to study French culture and language! Okay, his friends suggest, he can work for the United Nations or Berlitz. But wait – he also has plans to design a post office, invent bifocals, and print his Poor Richard’s Almanac! Looking at Ben’s life this way reminds us that a life can look scattered and fragmented while it’s unfolding but still go down in history as a smashing success.”
Isn’t that fun?
I digress. Anyway… for my elevator pitch I decided to say that I was in transition career-wise, but I want to create success for myself (including financial compensation) as a Renaissance Soul. I want to continue to explore many of my interests – writing, photography, helping people, food - and I want to be able to make an income in at least one of not all of these areas! That way I can keep things fresh! I can take opportunities as they come – as they excite me! I can use many of my skills and talents simultaneously! I can grow in multiple ways, cultivating different aspects of my personality!
I was afraid I would come across as unfocused and flaky with this response, but when I was finished talking two of the other group members instantly spoke up with support saying they felt the same way! One of them actually told me I was her “Renaissance Soul sister”! It felt good. I felt accepted and energized to follow my non-traditional all-over-the-place dreams.
The Mastermind group will continue to meet once a month for an entire year. I am excited for this… it is a tool which will keep me on track, focusing on what I want out of life and giving me the guidance and support to help me get it. Our first homework assignment is a fun one that I will have to give much thought to. You can participate too if you like. For next month I have to come up with a list:
- five things I want to DO
- five things I want to HAVE
- five things I want to BE
So all in all a very productive week. I’ve become even clearer that shooting events is not my favorite thing – though now I feel more confident and it’s definitely a good way to make a little money! I can probably cross ‘wedding photographer’ off my list of possible careers though.
I definitely enjoyed my shoot with Amie even though it was extremely hard work. I loved collaborating with her! It was fun having a stylist and being able to focus on getting the shots. I felt good as I realized that I actually have learned a lot over the last year. I was pretty impressed with my knowledge of the advanced camera settings… and I was using Adam’s 7D, which is even more complex than my Rebel! Anyway, it was exciting and Amie and I are already planning the next shoot.
























